hh....please help

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this is typical of my going out. please tell me what i am doing wrong.
for this hand in particular...i showed all my cards...TT, AK, etc. i hadnt lost a pot yet.

this is so typical of how i have been losing 90% of my sngs in the last 2 months. being anywhere from a 90/10 leader to a 51/49 flip. consistently losing.

Table '10308610 1' Seat #3 is the button
Seat 1: gassiusclay (1860 in chips)
Seat 2: TheMilli (1620 in chips)
Seat 3: frickinpoker (610 in chips)
Seat 4: RobMC_1 (1420 in chips)
Seat 5: BrainDonor (1475 in chips)
Seat 6: HOGGER70 (1270 in chips)
Seat 7: 12eeDe12 (1420 in chips)
Seat 8: gator8373 (2080 in chips)
Seat 9: sharks1 (1745 in chips)
RobMC_1: posts small blind 15
BrainDonor: posts big blind 30
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to gator8373 [Qc Qh]
HOGGER70: folds
12eeDe12: folds
gator8373: raises 90 to 120 i raise it 4x bb.
sharks1: calls 120
gassiusclay: folds
TheMilli: folds
frickinpoker: folds
RobMC_1: folds
BrainDonor: folds
*** FLOP *** [8c Ts 5c]
gator8373: bets 420 i bet well over the pot, to get rid of flush draw
sharks1: raises 1205 to 1625 and is all-in
gator8373: calls 1205 how can i fold this???
*** TURN *** [8c Ts 5c] [2c]
*** RIVER *** [8c Ts 5c 2c] [4h]
*** SHOW DOWN ***
gator8373: shows [Qc Qh] (a pair of Queens)
sharks1: shows [Ac 7c] (a flush, Ace high)how can he call preflop and how can he push like that post flop?

oh yeah, he gave me a hard time that i didnt bet enough. uh...HUH????

sharks1 collected 3535 from pot
*** SUMMARY ***
Total pot 3535 | Rake 0
Board [8c Ts 5c 2c 4h]
Seat 1: gassiusclay folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 2: TheMilli folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 3: frickinpoker (button) folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 4: RobMC_1 (small blind) folded before Flop
Seat 5: BrainDonor (big blind) folded before Flop
Seat 6: HOGGER70 folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 7: 12eeDe12 folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 8: gator8373 showed [Qc Qh] and lost with a pair of Queens
Seat 9: sharks1 showed [Ac 7c] and won (3535) with a flush, Ace high

2 hands later......

PokerStars Game #2150247002: Tournament #10308610, Hold'em No Limit - Level II (15/30) - 2005/07/20 - 23:15:35 (ET)
Table '10308610 1' Seat #6 is the button
Seat 1: gassiusclay (1860 in chips)
Seat 2: TheMilli (2040 in chips)
Seat 3: frickinpoker (610 in chips)
Seat 4: RobMC_1 (1405 in chips)
Seat 5: BrainDonor (1415 in chips)
Seat 6: HOGGER70 (1225 in chips)
Seat 7: 12eeDe12 (1390 in chips)
Seat 8: gator8373 (380 in chips)
Seat 9: sharks1 (3175 in chips)
12eeDe12: posts small blind 15
gator8373: posts big blind 30
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to gator8373 [Th Ts]
sharks1: folds
gassiusclay: folds
TheMilli: folds
frickinpoker: calls 30
RobMC_1: folds
BrainDonor: folds
HOGGER70: folds
12eeDe12: calls 15
gator8373: raises 350 to 380 and is all-in i am ss, there is one limper. anything wrong here?
frickinpoker: calls 350
12eeDe12: folds
*** FLOP *** [Qh 2h Jd]
*** TURN *** [Qh 2h Jd] [9s]
*** RIVER *** [Qh 2h Jd 9s] [7s]
*** SHOW DOWN ***
gator8373: shows [Th Ts] (a pair of Tens)
frickinpoker: shows [2s Qs] (two pair, Queens and Deuces) ???????? how on earth does he call this????????????
sharks1 said, "In Atlanta you must get double points for using the moron word"
frickinpoker collected 790 from pot
*** SUMMARY ***
Total pot 790 | Rake 0
Board [Qh 2h Jd 9s 7s]
Seat 1: gassiusclay folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 2: TheMilli folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 3: frickinpoker showed [2s Qs] and won (790) with two pair, Queens and Deuces
Seat 4: RobMC_1 folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 5: BrainDonor folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 6: HOGGER70 (button) folded before Flop (didn't bet)
Seat 7: 12eeDe12 (small blind) folded before Flop
Seat 8: gator8373 (big blind) showed [Th Ts] and lost with a pair of Tens
Seat 9: sharks1 folded before Flop (didn't bet)