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View Poll Results: Is "butthurt" derived from anal sex?
I think so. 3 6.98%
Maybe to some people. 3 6.98%
I don't think so. 32 74.42%
42 hurt butts 5 11.63%
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Old 10-11-2019, 02:42 PM
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I always took it as slur towards someone being f'd in the a. But I guess the spanking derivation works as well.
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I think that is exactly what the #1 urban dictionary definition is saying, particularly the end
Legit question - how is "cessation of communication and overt hostility towards the "aggressor"." in any way emasculation?

I am not seeing anything in that definition relating to challenging/removing someone's masculinity? Maybe I need the puppets.
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Legit question - how is "cessation of communication and overt hostility towards the "aggressor"." in any way emasculation?

I am not seeing anything in that definition relating to challenging/removing someone's masculinity? Maybe I need the puppets.
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I don't think butthurt is a gay slur. Everyone has a butt, and everyone's butt has hurt at some point or other.
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Legit question - how is "cessation of communication and overt hostility towards the "aggressor"." in any way emasculation?

I am not seeing anything in that definition relating to challenging/removing someone's masculinity? Maybe I need the puppets.
Wrong angle. Aggressor creates the emasculation (including the pain) in the recipient; the recipient expresses overt hostility toward the aggressor.

The recipient is the one who is "butthurt".

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Wrong angle.
yep. the wrong angle will totally leave your butt hurting.

...I know this because it happened to a friend of mine.
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Everything is a slur, so we should all just stop speaking.

Seriously though. It's debatable whether "butthurt" is specifically a gay slur. (Unlike "ghey," which definitely is.) Regardless, it's not a tasteful phrase, so I've never really used it much.
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