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Old 12-06-2019, 08:19 AM
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Default Now I get it. This is why most women care so much about men's money.

Women are awesomely desirable. They have the beauty, the booty, and the boobies, which are highly valued by heterosexual men.

But what do men have to offer to women? Dick? That's nothing special or valuable to women. The average woman can walk into a bar and get that within minutes, as easily as buying a Snickers bar from the supermarket. The average woman can also go without it for months or years without sweating, if she doesn't want to get it like that.

Outside of the 5% of men who are very good-looking and/or compellingly charming, the rest of men are just a big crowd of barely tolerable interchangeable trolls. So men in the 95% need to offer something else outside of their person to attract women; that's where the importance of money lies.

Unless the man's money is enough to improve a woman's quality of life, he's practically useless to her in the long term. That's why women find it so important that that the men they date long term or marry must be earning approximately equal or more money than themselves. If a male engineer is making $140,000/year he's obviously not a dummy or slacker, but that's not enough to improve the quality of life for a female doctor who's making $300,000, so she doesn't want him unless he's otherwise in the attractive 5% mentioned above (and even then, he might not be good enough because she'll often be seeking somebody who is in that attractive 5% and makes $300K).

There are some exceptions for men in the 95% who make less money. If a guy is very handy with cars and household tools, he can improve a woman's quality of life by fixing the car and things around the house, which saves money and provides the convenience of not having to call a stranger into the house to fix stuff or carry the car to a mechanic. Or if the guy earning less than her is in a position of power or status, such as being a local politician or musician, that can boost her pride and prestige within her social circles.

Ultimately, it boils down to how men and women can improve the quality of life of each other. Women have enough innate traits of desirability that they can improve men's QoL just by living in the same house. But the vast majority of men aren't nearly as inherently desirable to women, so most of them can't improve a woman's QoL except with money.
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this is one of the cringiest things i've ever read here imo
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you get dumped recently, or...?
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Old 12-06-2019, 08:54 AM
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that's gonna be a yikes form me dawg. don't shoot up the place.
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carry the car to a mechanic.
this would indeed be inconvenient
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Looking forward to the follow-up posts about why people have children, make friends, join social organizations, and maintain relationships with families of origin - all in order to improve their quality of life.
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OP, read "a man's guide to women", report back. I'm not trolling at all, I found it a very useful book with a lot of very pertinent information.

I know a lot of couples with similar incomes, so, that right there, is proof your hypothesis is wrong.
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That's why women find it so important that that the men they date long term or marry must be earning approximately equal or more money than themselves. If a male engineer is making $140,000/year he's obviously not a dummy or slacker, but that's not enough to improve the quality of life for a female doctor who's making $300,000
I'm not following your math here. 140K+300K > 300K, so assuming $$$ is directly correlated to quality of life there's still an improvement.

Unless you are assuming that the woman is expecting to stop working once she's gotten access to the man's money? Seems like an odd thing to expect from a doctor making $300,000.
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This not get you enough upvotes on r/MGTOW?
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